If you are over 20 years old, If you go into college, If you work for company or if you retire,   You face the moment like this : “Oh, please let me alone! Don’t bother me anymore. I’m so sick of everything around! I have no idea what I can do!”  This is so natural feeling which everyone goes through at least once in a lifetime. The point is, When This thought comes in our mind, We easily become fragile and we fall into a deep hole which looks endless and no exit.  

Then, You are panic. You have no idea what you can do. Here is the easiest way you can get out of the situation : Go out and start your own trip. If I say this, maybe you could ask me, what for? why I have to do that? If you give me a minute, Let me show you what you earn from your solo trip.

The first You earn: 100% understanding about there is so many various ways to live our life

 Please look around for a moment. You can see your family, friends and colleagues. Again, Look at them closely. Do you notice? Yes, They are living their life just same as you do. Because you choose them to hang out with. In the life you live, People think as you do, People works as you work. Instinctively, we gather people who is similar to us. Because It makes us feel comfortable. But people grow through experience when they meet new people and circumstance. And that is possible when you go for your solo trip. When you start to travel, You realize many people in the world actually live those lives which you think it is only possible just on TV or a book. The fact is you are the one who is just not included in these lives. You have desire to explore new life style and apply it in your life and want to make it better. Then, Solo trip is the best chance to try it.

The Second thing You earn: You don’t step back anymore when you meet stranger. Because You’re the one to come first!

 When you start solo trip, You totally understand situation which there is no one to rely on. It doesn’t take a long time to figure out the fact that what would happen during the trip totally depends on you. If you don’t know how to take a bus or how to book a restaurant, You are the one who are in trouble. So, This makes you jump into your life which you just let go before. So Eventually, You find the truth – You can create your own life with your hand if you have a will. Solo trip gives you a chance to do experiment what will happen when you hold your horse about your life. You are not a bystander of your life anymore.

The third thing You earn: People who listen their inner voice through trip doesn’t feel lonely

 Going to solo trip means that you are ready to be independent. For a long time, We are belong to family, school, company. So, At first, when you are apart from them, You feel alone. Maybe you want to go back to your cozy home. But Let’s think about it. Sometimes there is a moment that you thought no one can’t understand you and this makes you disappointed. But You have to face the truth. They are not you. So It is so natural they can’t fully understand you. For me, It took long time to realise that I need to face the truth. You would admit this : You are the only one who can understand yourself. So You have to be the one who know much about you. People who know about themselves well don’t feel lonely. Because they spend enough time to think who they are through solo trip.

This is just at least things you get through solo trip. That means more opportunity is waiting for you.   Do you need more story to convince you? Please visit NomadHer site & app. All NomadHers in the world is waiting to be your trip mate!